old friends, new times.

AM was over tonight.

as old friends go...hes prolly one of the oldest. not at all a regular but its one of those hard-to-define relationships, evolved and dveloped in its own unusual way over time.

him coming over to my new place was important, especially since he missed the whole pre-shaadi process. him getting along with k was important too. somehow. k liking him was even more important.

a friend of mine used to say that once married, all your relationships need to be in some subliminal way be approved by your other half. i had pooh-pahed the concept in my search for an "independent-together" married life those many years ago...but tonight, as a little happy sigh worked its way around my heart when AM and k actually got along, i realize she may have had something there.